Posts Tagged 'Texas'

Till Gabriel Blows His Horn

The eyes of Texas are upon you

All the live long days

The eyes of Texas are upon you

And you cannot get away

Do not think you can escape them

From night till early in the morn

The eyes of Texas are upon you

Till Gabriel blows his horn

Those are the lyrics to the alma mater for The University of Texas at Austin. As you may have figured out by now, I received degrees from there many years ago. For many this is just a song set to the tune of I’ve Been Working on the Railroad, but for Texas Exes it serves as a reminder that what we do with our lives is seen and felt by many people – perhaps not the entire State of Texas or the world, but more people than one would imagine.

A friend and former business associate recently died as the result of a seemingly random traffic accident. He too was a proud graduate of The University of Teas at Austin. While we did not talk as often as we did when we worked at the same company, we exchanged texts throughout the year about the ups and downs of the various Longhorn athletic teams and how things were going in our professional careers.

When I attended his funeral in the small Texas town of Ballinger, it struck me just how many lives one person could touch in their lives. The church was overflowing with people wanting to take a part in honoring his life. As I listened to the eulogies, it also struck me that he was a person that truly lived his life knowing that the eyes of Texas were upon him. As the stories were told of his childhood and on through to his last day, it left no doubt that he had an eye for business from an early age, that community was important to him, and that love of family and God were at the center of every part of his life.

As many of us do, I find myself caught up all too often in the daily work grind. That grind seems to have the ability to consume all our energy, leaving very little for the other much more important things in our lives. The grind gets in the way our relationships with friends and family; it becomes the excuse to not be involved in activities to help those in our community; it even begins to interfere with our faith. In short we let work define our lives. We reach a point where we live to work. What we need to do is work to live.

My friend had it right; he strived for success in his career in order to be a better husband, father, and member of his community. He wanted to make a difference in people’s lives – and I think the evidence is there that he did. I can learn a lot from his short 35 years of life, and the last lesson is to remember what matters most, never lose sight of it and live every day like it is your last chance to impact a life.

Till Gabriel blows his horn…………

Say it Ain’t So: Thoughts on The End of a 100 Year Rivalry

Texas Fight, Texas Fight; And it’s goodbye to a&m…….

Good-bye to texas university; So long to the Orange and the White……

If you are from the State of Texas or have even ever been in the state, especially in the Fall, then there’s a pretty good chance you know these words are from the fight songs of the two flagship public universities in Texas. One lays claim to being the first public university in the state and the other claims to be “the university of the first class” in the state.

I am a proud graduate of the “university of the first class,” also known as THE University of Texas and as expected I have many friends that are as well. But I also have many friends (and a few family members) that attended that other university over in College Station. This scenario of “mixed friendships” and “mixed families” has created an intense rivalry both on and off the athletic field.

Believe or not I did not grow up a hardcore Texas Longhorn fan. I was actually more interested in the SMU Mustangs – growing up back in the days of the Pony Express. It was not until I chose to go to UT that my attention really turned to this crazy rivalry. My first in-person exposure to the heated rivalry between Texas and Texas A&M was in the Spring of 1987 during my senior year in high school. By that time I had been accepted to the University of Texas (I chose UT for it’s top ranked Accounting program, not it’s sports teams) and several of my friends had been accepted to Texas A&M. Somehow we convinced our parents to let us take an overnight road trip to College Station to watch a baseball game – without any parents tagging along. It was not just any baseball game; it was a baseball game between the Horns and Aggies.

I don’t recall the score of that game, but the Horns were pretty good that season so I am guessing Texas came out on top. But I do recall the feeling of being out of place in a sea of maroon and white and having a burning desire to talk trash to my Aggie friends when the Horns made a good play. Needless to say, one exposure and I was hooked on the rivalry.

Fast forward 25 years to the Spring 2012, the last year in which the Horns and Aggies will be in the same conference. And for the foreseeable future, the last year the two schools will line up against each other in any sport. I had the pleasure of watching the final baseball game between these two schools this past weekend in Austin with one of my newer Aggie friends – and a former Aggie Yell Leader at that. Texas A&M had already won the series thanks to two solid victories, but bragging rights for that final game were still on the line. As we watched the game we both talked about what a shame it was for such a great rivalry to come to a halt. The trash talk was kept to a minimum, although I did catch my friend mouthing the Aggie version of Texas Fight a time or two. For that most part we were just two guys watching “America’s pastime” – Texas-style.

Lucky for me, the Horns came out on top of the final game with a thrilling come from behind in the 9th inning 2-1 victory. Much like in football, basketball, volleyball, and softball, the Horns baseball team won the final regular season meeting against the Aggies. The Aggies do get to claim wins in soccer, a Big XII title in golf and more than likely conference championships in track, so there is some balance in perpetual bragging rights.

I found it fitting that the last sporting event I watched in person between these two schools was the same as the first sporting event I watched between them. It started with baseball and for now has ended with baseball.

I for one hate to see this rivalry end. Both schools will survive without it, but a little something will be missing. Coca-Cola has Pepsi; McDonalds has Burger King; Superman has Lex Luthor. It’s fun to have a rival.

One can only hope that in time, the two schools will agree to play each other again. Until then we can only hope for some chance meetings in post-season play and hang onto the memories of past contests. And if we are lucky, this is not the death of the rivalry but merely a temporary suspension. But for now, it is (much like the songs say) “goodbye” to the rivalry.

Hook’em!!!

And as painful as it is to type, Gig’em!!!